Some useful expressions for women dealing with unwanted suitors:
English
Oshindonga
I don’t want you. (works well and gets a laugh from all)
Inandi hala. / Inandi ku hala.
Let go of me. / Leave me alone.
Etha ndje!
He is bothering me.
Ota hepeke ndje.
I am already married.
Onda hokanwa nale.
I already have a man; I don’t want two.
Ondi na omusamane nale; inandi hala
yaali.
Quick Tips •
It is usually best not to insult. Inandi hala is
strong enough, and doesn’t make people angry or defensive of their
pride.
• An effective approach is to say aaye to everything and suck your
teeth (’tsk) to show your disgust.
•
If he asks, Omusamane gwoye oku li peni? (Where is your
husband?), just say, kEgumbo. (At home.)